Finding hope - Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day

Written By Judy Jou - October 15 2018


Katie Hall
October 22 2018

Thank you for sharing your story. For being so honest and open. I had to have an emergency D&C when we miscarried around 9 weeks (my bleeding became out of control) and your story brought back sooo many of my feelings from that time. It was one of the scariest moments of my life. This was a very sad time in our family. My husband and daughter were so supportive but I agree that it is an especially difficult burden for the mother to bear. I’m so glad that you have hope and strength from God. His love in never ending. God carried us through that difficult season in our life and I pray that you will continue to lean on Him. It helped me to know that our baby was in Heaven and we would meet there one day. I wasn’t sure that I wanted to try again for another child after all that I went through. After some time of healing, God blessed us with a daughter (our rainbow baby) after our miscarriage. I will be praying as you continue to grieve the loss of your babies. You and your daughter are just beautiful. May God bless your family. Thank you again for sharing your story in an open and honest way. I know God will use it to bless others.

October 18 2018

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I’m so sorry you have had to endure this pain. I have also had a difficult year with 2 pregnancy losses and often feel alone. I’ve recently opened up to other women, and find it incredible how many others go through a similar situation – why is it such a silenced topic?
I have a 3 1/2 year old daughter who is my light through everything and I thank God for every day. She too would love to be a big sister one day and I pray for all women who wish to grow their family. You are a beautiful and strong mother who is not alone <3

October 17 2018

Dear Judy,
I was so broken and sad as I read your blog and all that you went through in the past year. However I was so glad to know that you trust a God who knows you and is in complete control of everything! Though we cannot understand or explain why we pass through certain painful path we can be sure that God is faithful and can be trusted! I will be praying for you! You are an amazing woman and God has given you a wonderful gift to bless many through your business!

October 17 2018

I’m so sorry for your loss. ♡ I had a miscarriage at 12 weeks two years ago and while I feel like I’ve grieved well, it still comes and goes – often when I least expect it. I wonder what our baby would be doing now, how our lives would be different, picture the ways my girls would love the baby and so on. This is a song that ministered to me. I hope it does for you too. ♡♡♡

October 17 2018

I just want you to know that you clearly have done an incredible job raising June and for her to be accepting of being possibly an only child and empathetic to your loss shows what a profound impact you’ve had as her mom.
I’m an only child myself and to date so is my daughter. I’ve never felt alone and in many ways feel so blessed God allowed my parents to have me and for me to have a daughter as so many people don’t get even one child, so in many ways I feel infinitely blessed. Thank you for sharing your story and I pray for you and your family.

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